Monday

Perception is the co-pilot to reality...

I recently read a post from Belle @ Capitol Hill Style, that really made me think.  Basically Belle wrote a piece about how you see yourself vs. how other people see you. Apparently she told an acquaintance whose dating profile described her as carefree and low maintenance that she was neither; and how the acquaintance got a little 'upset' with her until she got a few more opinions that agreed with Belle. I've done this on more than one occasion myself, once at the encouragement of my mentor, and more recently, while I was writing a speech on the importance of "branding yourself" in ones career.

So now I'm a little curious, have any of you ever asked your friends and coworkers what they think about you? And would you even want to know?
For the record, my co workers seem to think I'm hyper organized and no-nonsense, and my friends seem to think I'm disorganized and a good listener. I wouldn't have used any of those terms to describe myself, so I guess that's the point.
What say you?

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  1. I've never asked. I may have too.
    Would definitely make for interesting conversation.

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  2. Hey there, thanks for the follow! I am now following you! I like your blog, couldn't stop reading all your posts! You are beautiful and have such great style! I don't know if I would want to know, or rather would I care.. Maybe if I did know it would make me take a look at myself if they said negative things.. So it could be positive or negative :/ depending on the person.

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  3. I asked my co workers once what they thought about me -- my friend told me that I was greedy. I was so hurt and bummed ... I also like the way you labeled this -- point of view.

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  4. Mmmhm I don't know if I realy want to know. I think everyone would have their
    Opinions that are off! I think everyone is usually differen at home and work to some degree! Great question!

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  5. Yes, I've actually realized a few things about myself in recent years due to others' perception. Most times its what I would say about myself but every once in a while it differs. Cute bun!

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  6. You definitely have me thinking. I know people who don't know me probably think I am high maintenance, type A, and organized. People who really, really know me I believe would describe me a laid back, round the way girl, hoping to enjoy the finer things but can make do with kool-aid and a sandwich. I might have to investigate this question.........

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